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Post by Evan Kearney on Sept 28, 2005 21:34:39 GMT -5
Its hard though, when the girls are ridiculously good looking (haha- theres a face book group of the same title). You have you have a really good "edge" over any other prospective guys. I dont know what type of techniques of flirting to use to gain the "edge."
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Post by Matt Mullis on Sept 29, 2005 6:02:58 GMT -5
just be funny it works
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Post by dwedge31 on Sept 29, 2005 9:58:05 GMT -5
just be yourself...dont try to be someone your not, yeah it'll work at first but then it'll get you into trouble later on. so just be yourself and you'll be fine.
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Post by Evan Kearney on Sept 30, 2005 15:24:11 GMT -5
Hopefully next week Ill talk to her. Me and Matt are planning on getting her to sit at our lunch table!
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Post by firedancer87 on Sept 30, 2005 16:38:13 GMT -5
yes that is so true just be yourself
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Post by Pastor Martin Ssempa on Sept 30, 2005 17:06:20 GMT -5
Yo I gotta see this chick Kearney, I'm sure she's probably the hottest piece of meat at MU judging by our taste in women!  |
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Post by Evan Kearney on Oct 3, 2005 15:19:17 GMT -5
haha. She is very hot that is for sure. I need some tips on approaching her initially. That is the hardest part for me since I am inexperienced with girls.
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Post by Pastor Martin Ssempa on Oct 3, 2005 15:41:47 GMT -5
I know what'cha mean Kearney, unfortunately I'm pretty sure we both are, so I probably couldn't lend you any advice on that situation.. so I think we're gonna have to use the rest of our alliance to help you out on ways to approach her.
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Post by dwedge31 on Oct 3, 2005 15:41:54 GMT -5
i would just walk right up to her and say "hey i couldn't help noticing you over here and i just had to come over and introduce myself." And if your walking over and she makes eye contact DO NOT look away just smile and keep your eyes on the prize. looking away shows a lack of confidence. you got this kearney!!! |
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Post by Evan Kearney on Oct 3, 2005 20:06:37 GMT -5
Ok. I need more help. I have never met the girl before in my life. She doesnt know I exist, apart from befriending me on the facebook (thanks to MUMatt.) From my experience, girls hate you if they know you are attracted to them, so how would you go about talking to her, that is, singling her out, without appearing as though you like her, since it would be very easy to detect (I mean, girls dont come up to me and talk to me out of the clear blue sky.) I have learned that I absolutely cannot appear interested in her, yet, the paradox is, I need to talk to her, or nothing will become of it. Are there any tips from female HKers on how to improve my appearance or something of the sort, so that she wont be turned off and maybe actually find me...dare I say..physically attractive?! I dont know, its confusing. I need a script or something to practice with alternative endings after everything she says! AHH.
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Post by Pastor Martin Ssempa on Oct 4, 2005 0:40:35 GMT -5
Kearney, I'm in the same exact fucking boat you're in man, there are TONS of hot girls out here that I would want to approach and start talking to, but I know they'd have that "just fuck off" attitude with me, so I basically just don't try. Girls seem to be really weird with shit having to do with dating and such, so I don't plan on figuring it out. I wish they'd all be as easy-going as I am. I think for me at least, it'll just have to be the right time and place, maybe if I start talking to a girl in one of my classes and get to know her well or something, but besides that, I'm not gonna waste my time searching to hook up with any chick out here...I'm having fun right now as it is in this beautiful Arizona weather, so why waste my precious time girl huntin'? I'll meet her one of these days. That's just from my standpoint tho..I'd say go for that hot chick tho Kearney if you're diggin her |
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Post by mumatt on Oct 4, 2005 6:04:14 GMT -5
Evan, we have discussed this before, this is how it is going to work I am going to approach her and manage to get her to sit with us, once this is accomplished i make introductions and then you start asking her questions, because if i do she will think i am interested, thats all girls want really, a guy who asks questions and listens to the answers, you will be fine, just let me take care of the match making |
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Post by Pastor Martin Ssempa on Oct 4, 2005 16:41:58 GMT -5
oh man, you guys gotta let me know when this whole thing is goin down..I wanna see how it turns out! ;D
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Post by mumatt on Oct 4, 2005 16:56:49 GMT -5
will do, i am feeling thursday, we had a chance today, but the timing was off, we are hopeful for thurs, we will let ya know! |
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Post by Evan Kearney on Oct 4, 2005 17:09:06 GMT -5
I hope Thursday works. I just hope I dont freeze up again like I did today. I was all ready to talk to her, but I couldnt even sustain simple eye contact for more than a half second with her! Her hotness intimidates me and makes me nervous! Ahhh!
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